It’s becoming unbecoming (the favorite line of a great teacher from a distant past), boys are reeaalllly devising the most subtle and ingenious ways of wooing girls. I find it unethical when it’s done with the girl ‘blindfolded’, sucked up in the deception that this guy is in for counseling sessions about some other girl who so coincidentally has so much in common with the Miss in question.
Yes, the system has gotten tight. Though the census people claim there’re more females than there are males, they’re unable to tell us that the quality girls are in fact, short in supply. So whilst I advocate the most worthy guy ending up with her, it must be done with her eyes open and her mind sober. Not when she’s drunk on false impressions and is vulnerable to unexpected surprises. That’s why I’m writing this, for fair play.
Ladies, are you fun to talk to and be with? Are you desirable to any/all categories of guys (dolu, spirito, yo yo, akata, sharks, broke, rich…)? Then please, shine your eyes, see the absurdity in a guy coming to seek best-friendship with you. Even if he’s not the kind of guy you typically attract.
Yes, there are some few, guys who just have your interest at heart. They’ll massage your sprained ankle and not linger to your calf even if you were tipsy. From the ground floor, they wouldn’t look up your skirt as you descended a staircase, even if you wouldn’t catch them sneaking a peek at what’s hidden from the carnal eye. If your towel dropped, they’ll hand it to you without needing to cross their legs to conceal a stiffening of sorts. They’ll spend countless hours wiping your tears, smiling to your incomprehensible blabbering and actually be happy when you tell them you’re in love -with some other guy. However guys like that are rare. They’re either gay, or have realistically confronted the damning result of entertaining amorous interests in you. Read the rest of this entry »
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