I watched a classic movie a short while back; its theme was ethically controversial; in that the nature of the main character’s business enterprise had to do with helping cheating partners to not get caught; hence its name; the ALIBI.
In its opening scene, the most profound statement was made; “its not cheating or infidelity that breaks up relationships…it is getting CAUGHT cheating that breaks the relationship.” But don’t get it twisted, this piece isn’t about tips to not get caught cheating…its about how to make it very irrelevant for your man to cheat on you, its about how to raise your game soo high that playing becomes the last thing on his mind.
I’ve heard more than a couple of ladies say; “all you guys are the same.” Well I’m sorry to burst your bubble honey ,because all us guys aren’t the same, at worst we are different shades of the same color, where for the purpose of clarity, lets say the most intellectually sophisticated guys with the tightest game are charcoal-coffee brown, and the guys at the other end of the scale are egg-whitish-brown. Obviously, there are some differences.
Fact 2, guys in one way or another, at one time or the other, seek opinion and/or approval from one or some guy friends of his about his babe…TRUST ME!!, we all wanna know what the boys think of our babe, and its not a cheap reassurance ploy…its jus the way it is, and the good news is, you can use it to your advantage.
Fact 3, all girlfriends fall under 3 major headings; the “what on earth did you see in her?” kind, the “awww I’m so happy for you man, she’s great for you” kind and then finally, the “meeeeehhhnnn, u r 1 darn lucky lad, I WISH SHE WAS MINE!!” category, and take it from me ladies, there’s a clear crisp difference among all them 3…and you wanna be in the last one, cos that’s where the sustainability is. Read the rest of this entry »