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The Lesson Abudu Taught Me.

10 Jan

Yesterday on my way to church, I saw a boy’s life slipping out of him like a woman out of a night robe. It must have been asphyxiation or something related, because the Kufuor bus he had been in was stacked with more people than a matchbox is with sticks.

His father and some elderly men were trying to resuscitate him the best they knew how. Screaming his name “ABUDU, ABUDU!!” like he could hear them if they raised their voices a notch higher. Like all that was wrong with him was a hearing disorder. Another man was smacking the soles of his feet and yet another was shaking him vigorously. I felt their fear as I stood by in my crisp ironed black trouser and neatly tucked in grey TM Lewin shirt.

Another man managed to stop a taxi. Fortunately the North Legon Clinic was only a few minutes away. In an instant, an unknown random taxi driver became the bearer of the keys to a little boy’s life. His rickety Opel Astra and his untried driving prowess didn’t matter so long as his horns blared loud enough and the car moved fast enough.

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Melting Moments

22 Jun

I just finished going through my picture gallery, each one indeed speaking a thousand words. In one of the pictures, I was an innocent-looking 8yr old boy with a boil on my right eyelid (yes, eye lid o), wearing a second-hand corduroy car-wash, with what looks like worn-out, oversized mummy leather slippers, posing on the white-washed wall of our old family house in Osu for an original Kodak moment. In the very next picture, I’m a dashing 23 yr old graduate, in blue denims, a coffee-brown army-like fitting shirt and a (made in Ciano) D&G leather belt. To complement the outfit I was in a blue-black trendy nike sneaker and Ray Barnes stunners acting like I wasn’t even aware a digital  picture was being taken of me.

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What Are You Doing With The Prodigy In YOU?

18 May

Calculate your age right now, and subtract 12. Yeah, that’s how long you’ve been making excuses. Because ideally, by the age 12, you should have at least had a small brush with something that resonates with a chord from within you. You should have had an idea of something that will excite you as much as it did the first time even if you did it every day for the rest of your entire life!! And you should have started walking it from your dreams into reality.

Have you ever seen a movie character, or met a very successful middle-aged person who’s at the top of the corporate ladder but still wishes he’d gone to that soccer academy, or looked for a music producer a bit longer? At 50, he still longingly, lustfully, hungrily looks at that guitar hanging on the wall in his hall and wishes he could turn back the hands of time just so he could have been a bit braver. Each emerging rock-star reminds him of his youth in a sad way. The weight of his paycheck still doesn’t make up for a life that just could have been filled with so much adventure and fulfillment. He aborted an electrifying 6000volts life for a mere remote control-type-battery-powered one. I don’t wanna be him.

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He’s Just Not That Into You!

13 May

Background; Oye is very opinionated, and when it comes to gender-sensitive stuff, you don’t even want to go there. This particular article of hers has great significance to me; in addition to being a lovely 5-star overview of a very debatable issue in its own right, it is also the article I read that challenged me to diversify and communicate through other means than poems. So as you read about guys and what we mean when we say and don’t say stuff (from a girl’s perspective), I wish you something that you’ll experience anyways; a refreshing reading experience!

Oye, tell ‘em.

I recently watched “He’s just not that into you”. It’s a wonderful movie and I think everyone should watch it. A lot that’s said in there is true. Believe me, I know. Don’t ask how.

Most of us on one level or another believe we are the exception to rules we don’t want to believe are true. A girl who finds herself in love with a ‘playa’ believes she is the one who will make him realize the error of his ways and change; become monogamous all for her.

It’s been said that guys like a good challenge but in a different way, I think we girls like challenges too. Why else will a quiet, shy and God-fearing young lady believe she can change an errant twenty-something year old guy and make him the kind of man all the ladies will envy her for? Why else will a girl continue trying to find the good in a bad guy when even his mom has given up on him?

I believe if a guy really wants to be with you, he will make it happen. Seriously, at least he will try. Most of the excuses they give all point to one thing…you are not the ‘ying’ to his ‘yang’.
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Who’s Waiting For You?

06 May

I don’t know about you, but there are a couple of people I’m grateful to for all the value they’ve added to my life. I still remember Dr. George, who got me my first job as an asst. librarian at the CSIR library right after high school, and dozens of others after him. I believe in God, and his ability to use whoever he so pleases to be a blessing to whomever He so pleases, but by default I was waiting for each of these people-blessings to learn something new, become a better person, and appreciate something better.

Recently I had been waiting for you, yes YOU! I had been waiting for you to get internet access and visit goldinwords often, become a fan and comment on the stuff you like; you can’t imagine how much of a difference it makes! Because trust me, no matter how isolated you are, how noble and not-for-profit your project or work is, it’s 10 times easier when you have people patting your back and making you know that what you’re doing makes a difference in their lives, so that explains part of why your very existence is a blessing to me. There’s a graph that illustrates the traffic on the site, it lets me know how many people have been where, so anytime you get on this site, you make the next article easier to write, because I’m aware it’s dropping a thought, putting a smile, making a difference in a life- that’s motivation enough.

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IN THE QUEST FOR YOUR DREAM JOB-where do you stand?

13 Apr

Many years ago, Rudyard Kipling gave an address at McGill University in Montreal. He said one striking thing which is worth remembering. Warning the students against an over-concern for money or position, or glory, he said: “Someday you will meet a man who cares for none of these. Then you will know how poor you are.” 

  -Halford E. Luccock

Watching people dressed up in funny formal clothes-because formal’s always funny 2 a small ‘syto’ school boy- was a childhood delight. They cussed at their inadequate sleep whilst they had breakfast, cussed at traffic whilst on their way to work, cussed at the job the whole time they were on it, then cussed at their bosses when they got home. Pissed off and frustrated proper, but couldn’t imagine a jobless life. You could shorten their sleep, increase work hours, reduce their pay, and still have enough people to successfully run your company and wait in your reception area for job interviews. Because in the Ghanaian culture, you probably get more stigmatized for being an able but jobless man than for being an HIV positive patient.

Though it seemed much like there weren’t enough jobs to go round, I was hopeful that it’ll get better. Today, I’m the guy in the funny formal clothes and I wonder which school boy is snickering at the sight of my red knee-reaching tie (seriously some people wear ties that long), on my oversized leafy-green shirt neatly tucked into my faded ash trouser. Lol, picture that! But seriously, I’m never gonna wear that…not even for truth or dare…well maybe. Read the rest of this entry »

 

A SIGNPOST IN NEED OF DIRECTION…

07 Apr

To everyone someone looks up to. Sometimes we can’t help feeling that we’re undeserving of a certain honor. I wrote this 10 mins ago, I’m like its greatest victim (a.k.a, e ‘twii’ me pass)

When the priest needs to confess

And the soldier’s asking for mercy

When the teacher is asking to be taught

And the employer’s job-hunting,

Then they’re starting to tell my story.

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AFTER-SEX THOUGHTS.

05 Mar

RATED 18:

Usually what you see right after the hot steamy passionate sex scene in most movies is the woman covered only in a bed sheet, reminiscing the just-ended glorious coitus in dreamland and thinking how fantastic the rest of their lives together’s gonna be with her prince charming by her side against the whole world… and the guy is usually in nothing but boxers; either sitting at the edge of the bed or looking through the window with his hand holding up his chin with this look on his face as if searching for the answer to the question his stone-cold silence is screaming above the movie’s background music; “how on earth did I end up in this stinking mess???!!!””

The answer to that question is in a rather explicit but deeply profound statement I heard some time back, and if you aren’t at least 18 yrs old, PLEASE STOP READING RIGHT HERE!!! Well, thus saith the statement; “an erected penis hath no conscience” and I concur, otherwise right BEFORE he defiled her, the 60 something year old father would THINK of the grave consequences of an uncontrolled libido on his liberty, and the future of his 12 and1/2 year old girl.

Did you hear the explanation the 49 year old the man who defiled his teenage daughter gave to the judge just last month? “Your Honor, I forgot my 46 year old wife had gone for a funeral over the weekend and thought it was actually my wife i was in bed with.” No kidding this actually happened, and you can read the full story on my joy online; http://news.myjoyonline.com/news/200912/39540.asp Read the rest of this entry »

 
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