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Just Do It- stuck in imaginary mode.

30 Nov

There’s us, as we are now, then there’s a life we day dream about. In it we’re world-acclaimed doctors, super heroes –friends with Batman & Robin-, authorities in finance or the oil & gas industry, best seller novelists et al. We drive porches, support worthy causes, write 6 figure cheques without flinching, come home to the most stunning spouse and gifted children and the world celebrates us.

The hard part isn’t that we aren’t living it yet, or dunno if we ever will, it’s that whenever we watch our favorite movies or flip through celebrity magazines, we see our lives being lived by strangers on a movie set or glossy page. So it makes a lot of sense to ask; why the heck aren’t we doing it? Why aren’t we living it? Why are we still stuck in imaginary mode???!!!! Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Perspective…you got it?

26 Aug

The number of forwarded e-mails that have entered my inbox till date are probably more than my age if converted into days. I read the first dozen or so religiously, then I started noticing a peculiar trend. You were emotionally blackmailed to forward it else risk being psychologically branded as inhuman, insensitive or even unchristian. I resented the fact that spirituality, salvation and other fine God-given gifts were tied to conditions and punishments orchestrated by a fellow mortal (irrespective of the ultimate purpose).  

Anyways, so I hardly read them, but the few I decided to read were very interesting, then out of the zillions, I saved a handful on my desktop, then out of the handful I’m going to share one with you. My good friend Robi forwarded it to me & and a buch of other people i dont know from Adam (as is characteristic of forwarded mails). It didn’t ask me to forward it, didn’t promise a strange chain of good lucks if I did, and didn’t judge or curse me for overlooking it (if I decided to), it simply gave me proper perspective, and I’d like you to have that too.  

So here goes….  

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ON BEHALF OF ALL THE PROUD AND STUCK-UP PEOPLE YOU KNOW.

29 Mar

Marcus Aurelius remains one of the greatest emperors of the ancient Roman Empire. It’s said that he hired a servant,to walk behind him as he made his way towards the roman times square, and the servant’s only job was to continuously whisper into his ears, as people sang praises to him; “u r only a man Sire, u r only a man”.

Without even noticing it, It’s so easy to walk on air when the most ego-boosting complements are being whispered into your ear every other hour. And that’s an ironically funny situation, cos chances are you were the 1st person to ‘notice’ that when Jackie Appiah started appearing on bill boards, she started walking with her nose, an inch higher into the sky. And it didn’t matter how quiet everyone thought the lad was, you couldn’t imagine how Sulley Muntari of all people could turn out to be such an arrogant and proud prick, why aah- because he’s playing in the Italian Serie ‘A’, mmkkkkyyeew!!! Not to even talk about that ‘seemingly-suddenly-very-popular’ girl in your neighborhood who used to play Maame ne Paapa with you. You couldn’t believe how just one kolo Miss Malaika crown could make her soo stuck up, she couldn’t see her toes from how high up in the sky her head was. Well excuuuuse yooouuu!!!

Ya never heard what Lord Acton said? Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. If every time you took in a breath of fresh air, another guy from another continent gave u another corny line about how anytime you blink it’s like you’ve pulled a trigger that shoots a bullet right into his heart.…what’s the assurance that you wouldn’t sit yourself on a throne in your self-determined social class, and say “KWAME WHO?” when they tell you your good old friend kwame Bediako is here to see you? Are you immune to the long-run effects of accolades and complements? Lemme tell you about a guy who thought he was. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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SEE WHAT WE’VE BECOME…IMAGINE US 15 YRS FROM NOW.

05 Mar

I was calling a friend just last week Tuesday at around 8:30am because I’d missed her badly and just wanted to say hello, but she didn’t pick up. I got a txt a couple of minutes later that read; “hi darl, missed u bunch! making a presentation at a board meeting right now, allow me to get back to you as soon as I’m done.” Then it hit me like a stray bullet! “We’re in the next phase already”.

That Saturday when my good old friend from Presec times; TT came to visit, it was getting to the end of the conversation that I realized that almost the whole time he’d been there, we’d been talking about our CEOs, what the future held for our respective companies, the nature of office politics, strategies we were employing to advance our long-term career objectives and the like. Then it hit me even harder!!!

From the days when we used to be late to the dining hall, when we’ll frantically ask the ‘Enter-pee’ (entertainment prefect) whether he could show the newly released MATRIX at entertainment on Saturday, when adrenaline flowed through our veins at the thought of breaking bounds, when we looked forward to the next ‘inter-co’ like it was a speech-and-prize giving day, and girls in ponk (barbed hair) were the kind of girls we dreamed of . Read the rest of this entry »

 
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